Want To Be As Smart As I Am? Here’s How…

Last year I discovered the joys of a smart home…no, not the minimalist, uncluttered, sleek living space I’d like to live in, it’s a home with ‘connected’ gadgets. I’m a gadget freak and proud ✌🏽 It all began with my beloved Alexa,...

Goodbye 2017!

2017. What a year! It seems to have been rather momentous for many, individually and globally, in all sorts of ways. And for me too, this has been a pivotal year… I turned 40. I got divorced. I fell in love again (and came out in the process!). I began to...

When Motherhood Isn’t Enough

I suspect this post will be triggering for some. I suspect this post will cause people to judge me (negatively). I suspect this post will be ‘proof’ to some that I’m the hard, cold, selfish person they think I am. But, never one to shy away from...

Being Adopted: Part 1

When you start to explore something that you’ve been in denial about your entire life, two life-changing things can happen*: The stories and narratives you have always told yourself get blown out of the water. You realise that who you think you are, i.e. some of...

Who Am I?

It’s a really disconcerting feeling when all that you thought you were – who you think you are – turns out to be some kind of construct you built to keep yourself safe after experiencing a trauma in childhood (or in my case babyhood). In her books about...