Me First, As A Mother.

I suspect this post will be triggering for some. I suspect this post will cause people to judge me (negatively). I suspect this post will be ‘proof’ to some that I’m the hard, cold, selfish person they think I am. But, never one to shy away from...

On Authenticity & Vulnerability In Business (And Life)

My therapist said an interesting thing to me this week, after we spent most of the session talking about my need for rules on how to just ‘be’*. She said: “It seems like you’re moving to a place of just being more authentically and more...

Being Adopted: The Journey, Part 1

When you start to explore something that you’ve been in denial about your entire life, two life-changing things can happen*: The stories and narratives you have always told yourself get blown out of the water. You realise that who you think you are, i.e. some of...

On Luck, Choice and Belonging

When I wrote about the frustrating irony of Me First, and how it relates to me wanting to be ok with my loved ones choosing themselves first, I missed off one important Me First – my very first experience of that – which has undoubtedly shaped the me I am today: My...