What You’ll Find Here

For want of a better definition, this is a lifestyle blog. I write about life – mostly mine and maybe sometimes yours too – and the things that are important in life. To me, this includes:

  • Getting to know me, myself & I – and digging the real me out from underneath the constructs I’ve spent a lifetime so cleverly constructing.
  • Relationships – what makes them work, what doesn’t and why I fell in love with one of my (female) best friends.
  • Being adopted – because after spending the first 39 years of my life thinking it hadn’t really affected me…let’s say no more!
  • Coming out and being gay in later life – which has been interesting to say the least!
  • Parenthood, single parenting, co-parenting – and how I attempt to survive it all.
  • Running my own business – on top of home educating my kids, nurturing my new relationship and processing my own emotional stuff.
  • Food, guitar playing, travel and techie stuff (gadgets, online tech, power tools…you name it, I’m there!).

If you want to say ‘hey’, ask a question or send me cool (or crazy) stuff to try out, I’m probably game! Get in touch here.

What You Won’t Find Here

  • Fashion tips. I’d live in a tracksuit if I could (in fact one of the biggest draws in becoming a personal trainer was so I could legitimately and professionally wear one every day!).
  • Recipes. I’m more of a ‘go off recipe’ kind of woman and find recipes intensely tedious to write, read or follow.
  • Home decor tips. I love making my home my own and I adore welding my power tools to do so but I know my limits on this front!

Who Am I?

That’s a very good question and one I’m still figuring out after quite a life-changing year in the run up to my 40th birthday – I divorced my teenage sweetheart, started a relationship with a woman, began to explore my adoption, made huge changes to my business, and dyed my hair for the first time ever (with a hidden rainbow, no less!!) – which had me pondering: Who Am I?

At the moment, this is what I do know about myself…

  • I’m Lea (pronounced Lee-UH NOT Lee), although the name my birth mother gave me was Jovy.
  • I’m Filipina, was born in HK and adopted by English parents from birth (who were given just 7 days to prepare for my arrival!).
  • I LOVE food and I most definitely live to eat. I eat almost 100% organic, though I am partial to the odd gourmet burger and fries.
  • My favourite colour is a deep teal.
  • In previous incarnations, I’ve been a management consultant for the world’s largest consulting company, before leaving to re-train as a holistic health coach.
  • I married my teenage sweetheart who I met when I was 17. After 22 happy years together we separated amicably in 2016.
  • I have two gorgeous children, Mali and Samson. But motherhood is definitely NOT the be-all and end-all for me.
  • I’m now in a same-sex relationship with one of my best friends. And I absolutely believe most women are more fluid than we dare to admit 😉
  • My core values are freedom, integrity, excellence and empowerment.
  • I’m ridiculously logical, intuitive, spiritual and highly creative – but not in the artistic sense (I can’t draw to save my life).
  • If you’re into Myers Briggs, I’m an INFJ. If you’re into the Fascinate system, I’m the Victor. If you’re into Human Design, I’m a Manifestor.
  • I’m 5 feet and 1.5 inches – the 0.5 is very important. If you’re also this short petite, you’ll know.
  • I have a very British accent but also speak a bit of German, French, Spanish and Italian.

During my time as an entrepreneur and business owner, I’ve:

  • Created a global movement, which garnered international media interest and caught the attention of big brands such as Dell.
  • Written, self-published and sold a number of ebooks; the first back in 2007 before everyone was doing it.
  • Organised and hosted the first (and second) ever national UK conference for illustrators.
  • Coached, mentored and consulted for hundreds of business owners online.
  • Run numerous businesses including a health & fitness coaching business, a web design & development business, professional blogging (i.e. I was paid to blog), freelance writing, technology consulting, strategic business consulting.
  • Been listed in Forbes magazine’s Thirty Women Entrepreneurs To Follow on Twitter.
  • Been featured in national and international press. You can see all my press & media mentions here.